First Dance Songs - Music for First Dance | Wedding Planning, Ideas & Etiquette | Bridal Guide Magazine

There are some songs that sound perfect, but when you really listen to them and learn the story behind them, well….you just might change your mind!

Tina

Divine Curves Bridal

Couples want everything to be perfect on their wedding day, especially their first dance. And I know that puzzling over which song to select for that special dance can take forever!

There are many great-sounding songs out there with sweet names and lovely melodies, and some even appear to be bona fide love songs—but they may have the wrong message. Sometimes they might actually be about breakups, abuse, and death. It’s important to pick a song that’s meaningful to you, and sometimes that isn’t a typical love song—and that’s totally OK. But as a general rule, picking a song that contradicts the message of your wedding day is confusing for guests. Remember, friends and family want to bask in the celebration and love right alongside the dancing couple!

So here are some songs to cross off your list when you brainstorm for that special moment (believe it or not, some of these have actually been requested by couples for their wedding). Plus, get some tips that will help you find the perfect song!

► “Make You Feel My Love” - Adele

This song is about desperation, not necessarily true love.

► “Don’t Stop Believing” - Journey 

Although this song makes for a fun sing-along at last call, it’s really the story of kids in a going-nowhere town.

► “I Will Always Love You” - Whitney Houston 

Whitney, we’ll always love you, too, but this was actually written as a breakup song.

► “Better With The Lights Off”  - New Boyz Ft. Chris Brown

Think about the one… Guys, your bride looks better with the lights off?

► “I Will Follow You Into The Dark” - Death Cab For Cutie

This one’s bound to get the waterworks going, but definitely not from happiness. Your wedding is the start of your new life together, not a time to be thinking about souls lost in limbo.

► “Just The Two Of Us”  - Will Smith 

Warning: This song is not actually about a couple—it’s about a father and son. This one will have you thinking more about Dr. Evil and Mini Me’s sweet duet in Austin Powers and less about you and your soul mate.

► “Always On My Mind ” - Elvis Presley 

This song is trying to be sweet by saying that, even though you were a bum in the actual relationship, you were always thinking about the other person…

► “Beautiful Stranger ” - Madonna 

I would hope that you two aren’t strangers anymore…

► “Band Of Gold ” - Freda Payne 

Another one of those songs that actually sounds like it’ll be a nice ditty about marriage but is actually quite the opposite.

► “When I’m 64” - Beatles

Though many interpret this song as a sweet song about a couple’s lasting love, there is much debate about whether it was written sarcastically and is actually about deep boredom in the later years of life.

But don’t let this list discourage you; it’s easier than you think to find that perfect song! Here are some closing tips to follow:

Pick a love song that’s actually about love or happiness.

Pick a song that’s special and important to the two of you. Maybe it’s a song that speaks to you more than any other song, a song that came on the radio during your first date, or a song that appears in a movie you saw together (as long as that movie’s not Kill Bill or Saw V).

Find a song that has good lyrics and a good melody. It can be easy to sacrifice one for the other, but just make sure that when you listen to the song, you like how it sounds just as much as the words (and vice versa).

Don’t be afraid to ask a trusted music expert for some advice. I suggest a Scratch Weddings DJ!

Good luck and congratulations!

GORGEOUS!  What other day could you get away with wearing these shoes!

But on the practical side - wouldn’t they hurt?  Beauty = Pain?

Wear these for the wedding, then slip into a comfy pair of blingy flip flops for reception and after party!

Tina

Divine Curves Bridal

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LOVE, LOVE, LOVE!!

Of course, since I am a redhead myself, I am drawn to anything like this, but this is a stunning use of hair accessories, veil and jewelry - as well as pulling in a vintage feel.

Tina

Divine Curves Bridal

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So many of my Brides are doing this!  I think it is so cute - especially for our Oklahoma/Texas Brides!

Tina

Divine Curves Bridal

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The Secrets for Successful Mismatched Bridesmaids (http://www.bellethemagazine.com/)

For the last few years, mismatch bridesmaid dresses has been one of the hottest trends on weddings. Everyday visiting my favorite blogs, I discover tons of style-savvy brides who find the most creative ways to follow this trend.

After all, I believe that allowing your bridesmaids to choose their dresses according to their budget, taste and type of body is a fabulous idea. If you decide to incorporate this plan to your wedding, just remember, the biggest secret of successful mismatching bridesmaids is to make your girls wear different dresses yet still look like your team… your bridal party. Bouquets, accessories and colors are elements that will help you achieve a chic mismatched bridesmaids look.

Here are some fabulous options for a successful mismatched bridesmaids look. 

Option No. 1: Same color, different shades.

Neutrals, including grey, are so hot this year, especially when it comes to bridesmaid dresses. Neutrals give mismatched dresses a more unified look than any other color. Try them all in a short length to give you, the bride, a more distinctive look. Or for a more edgy approach mix long and short dresses.

For those brides that want their bridesmaids to match their wedding colors try using vibrant colors in the same length, same bouquet, patterned tights and same color shoes are the elements this bride used to bring together her bridal party look.

Option No. 2: Different colors, same style.

Some brides would like to follow this trend, but they still like to choose their bridesmaids’ dresses. Option number 2 is for them.

Pick the exact same dress in the different tones of your wedding color palette looks amazing and gives your bridal party a pop of color.  You may also choose three or four different styles and colors and let your bridesmaids determine what fits them best, like bride number two. For a more eclectic appearance, choose the same patterned skirt with a different color top. Or follow the steps of bride number four by choosing a patterned dress and let your bridesmaids decide on the color.

Option No. 3: Same color, different style.

Give your bridesmaids the exact color or even the fabric you would like them to wear and let them came up with their own dress.  Or pick two or three variations with the same dress.

Option No.4: Same dress, mismatched accessories.

For a more settle mix keep the same dress for all your girls and mismatched the accessories. You have an infinity amount of possibilities to play with. Earrings, shoes, cardigans, rings and necklaces are just some alternatives.

Option No. 4: Free Style

If you feel like your girls have a great sense of style give them the freedom to wear what they have on their closets. You can always provide some guidance about your wedding theme to keep the look together. For brides who are looking for a vintage feeling this first image is a great inspiration. 

Many bloggers are going bananas with the idea of the rainbow bridesmaids, and I’m one of them. Isn’t it pretty? To accomplish this look make sure all your girls will wear different colors and that all the dresses have a simple and clean cut.

Courtesy:  http://www.bellethemagazine.com/

Merry Christmas to all my Divine Brides with Curves!

I pray this is your most blessed Christmas and New Years ever!

Love,

Tina

Divine Curves Bridal

This is exactly why I started selling ONLY plus size wedding gowns!  Kudo’s to you Melissa McCarthy!!

sincerleychardline:

Actress Melissa McCarthy is starting a plus size line!

McCarthy was inspired to finally launch her own retail line after searching for a dress to wear to the Emmys. She says,

“Trying to find stuff that’s still fashion-forward in my size is damn near impossible. It’s either for like a 98-year-old woman or a 14-year-old hooker, and there is nothing in the middle.”

Read more about her starting a new line here .

Disgruntled by the lack of choices, the Bridesmaids star has decided to launch her own line for plus-size women, which she’ll co-design with couturier Daniella Pearl.

(via curvesandconfidence)

Alternative bachelorette party ideas are all the rage for 2012 weddings. Creative vacations and fun getaway ideas are becoming popular for treating the bride to be to a fun last single night out party. Here are the top 10 ideas for alternative bachelorette parties:

1. Recently, destination bachelorette parties have expanded beyond Las Vegas to other exotic places such as Greece, Italy and beach getaways. Traveling to Europe seems to be getting slightly more affordable at this time of year and ‘the girls’ are taking advantage of cheap holiday flights.
2. Why not go green by camping in a national park? Camping trips in the past have a been a fun bachelor party idea but there’s no reason that the girls can’t enjoy a fun night away in Sedona or Joshua Tree. Not crazy about spending time in a tent? There are plenty of outdoor cabins and luxury campsites available online for your eco-friendly bachelorette party.
3. Give Back Bachelorette Parties: Service oriented parties are making a comeback. Brides are donating their time to give back to their community for a good cause. Using their time in a positive way is a great way to make an important impact for those less fortunate.
4. Skydiving & Bungee Jumping Adventures! While we’ve never understood the obsession some people have with jumping out of planes, these adventures are becoming a popular adrenaline rush for bachelorette parties. Check something off your bucket list with all your best gal pals in tow.
5. Kick back and relax at a girl’s bachelorette spa weekend. Take a trip to a local salon or plan a lavish spa retreat get away. Let your cares slip away while you’re covered in a mud wrap and massaged into relaxation. Treat your favorite bridesmaids to manicures and pedicures as a thank you for making your big day memorable.
6. Not everyone can have Napa in their backyard but if you’re lucky you can have a wine and cheese getaway to Napa Valley for a special wine themed bachelorette party. Rent a nice limo bus for a responsible transportation tour to all the scenic spots.
7. Photo session bachelorette parties are all the rage right now. Boudoir photos are a great wedding day present for your new husband. Or similar to photos you took with all your girlfriends in high school, bachelorettes are treating their best girl friends to girlfriend photos. Scrapbook all your new photos for a fun way to remember and thank your bridesmaids.
8. Everyone loves a laugh and comedians love playfully teasing bachelorettes. Sitting front row at a comedy club theme bachelorette party is a great way to get your bride-to-be plenty of attention!
9. Walk the red carpet at a new movie premiere in Hollywood. Getting dolled up is a fun glamorous excuse to dress up for a special occasion. Can’t make it out to Los Angeles with all your girls? Try planning a special showing of chick flick movies at your local movie theatre for a special movie night bachelorette party theme.
10. Trying to stay healthy and in shape for the big day? Plan a yoga theme bachelorette party with a yoga instructor or Pilates classes. These classes are great for non-drinkers or pregnant guests because you can abstain from alcohol and partying.

Any of these fun unique bachelorette party ideas are doable with a small or large party of girls. Be creative and use your imagination because your special girl is only getting married once! There are plenty of resources for how to put together a memorable bachelorette party on the internet and at local event planners. Don’t forget all your bachelorette party supplies so you can be sure to take lots of memorable bachelorette photographs!

VINTAGE HOLIDAY INSPIRATION!

Every wedding is beautiful and inspirational, but having a vintage Christmas inspired wedding is breathtaking!  

Enjoy!

Tina

Divine Curves Bridal

ACCESSORY 101:  How to choose the perfect accessories for your wedding gown!

Choosing the right accessories is vital to completing the look of your wedding gown! Choose items you love and that show your personality.  Vintage items are excellent and you can customize/modernize them to make them your own.

Tina

Divine Curves Bridal